Trying to Cure My Seasonal Depression: Surprising My Best-friend With a Girls Day

     

Surprising My Best-friend With a Girls Day : 


I absolutely love spending time with my friends, but with the mix of school and work it's hard to really take time and appreciate the time I spend with them, and not stress about the million other things I should be doing. I knew one of my close friends was going through a really stressful period in her life too, and instead of doing our usual study sessions where we cry about life, I decided to surprise her and take her out. 


I picked her up after yet another week of long classes and took us out for dinner at our favorite place to eat, MOD Pizza. We sat there for nearly an hour just eating our pizza and talking about all the things we had gone through this week. Considering we don't go to the same school- we had a LOT to catch up on.


Afterward, we weren't ready for the night to be over and instead hit every store in the suburban area that we could find. Instead of club-hopping on a Friday night, my bestie and I were hopping from a Walmart to Target to TJ Maxx, and any other store in a 10-mile radius. 


The night was honestly very fun and being able to laugh and forget about the daily stressors really helped alleviate my anxiety. Though I don't get to see my best friend often, it's times like this that really stick with me.


Overall I would rate this experience a 10/10 in helping cure my seasonal depression for it helped me look at the brighter side of things and cherish the good moments.




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